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Does Pastor Roy mentor leaders?
Pastor Edwards understands the value of training and equipping people who sense the call of God on their lives. He currently mentors leaders around the United States and in Mexico.
He does have requirements for mentorship, reach out to connect with him and find out your next step at: pastor@redemptioncg.org
What does godly Biblical leadership look like today?
When we talk about leadership, we often picture people in charge, making decisions, and directing others. But in God’s Kingdom, leadership looks very different! The Bible gives us a clear picture of what it means to lead like Jesus.
Godly Leaders Serve Others
(Mark 10:43-45 NKJV) “Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you shall be your servant. And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
Jesus showed us that the greatest leaders are those who serve. Godly leadership means putting others first, helping and encouraging them, and leading by example.
Godly Leaders Are Guided by God’s Word
(Psalm 119:105 NKJV) “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Biblical leaders make decisions rooted in Scripture, letting God’s truth guide them in every situation. They seek wisdom from God’s Word before leading others.
Godly Leaders Depend on the Holy Spirit
(Acts 6:3 NKJV) “Therefore, brethren, seek out from among you seven men of good reputation, full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business.”
Leadership isn’t about our own strength or talent. The early church chose leaders who were known for being filled with the Holy Spirit and wisdom. Godly leaders today still need the Spirit’s help to serve well.
Godly Leaders Lead by Example
(1 Timothy 4:12 NKJV) “Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.”
Leaders show others how to follow Christ by the way they live every day—in their words, actions, love, and faith.
Godly Leaders Build Up Others
(Ephesians 4:11-12 NKJV) “And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.”
Biblical leadership equips and empowers others to grow and serve. It’s not about doing everything yourself, but helping others become all God has called them to be.
Godly, biblical leadership today is about serving, following God’s Word, depending on the Holy Spirit, leading by example, and building up others. It’s leadership that looks like Jesus. If you desire to lead in any area—your home, work, church, or community—ask God to help you lead His way, for His glory!
If you feel called into ministry and need to talk, reach out to me and I'll do my very best to help you in anyway I can! The best way to reach me is by email: pastor@redemptioncg.org
Is Bible College right for me?
If you’re growing in your faith, you may have heard about Bible college or Bible training programs and wondered, “Is that the next step for me?” Every believer’s journey is unique, but let’s look at a few important things to consider as you seek God’s direction.
Bible College Helps You Grow in God’s Word
(2 Timothy 2:15 NKJV) “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
Bible college is a special opportunity to dig deeper into Scripture and learn how to understand and apply God’s truth. If you have a hunger to really know the Bible, Bible college can help satisfy that hunger.
Bible College Prepares You for Serving Others
(Ephesians 4:11-12 NKJV) “And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.”
Whether God is calling you to lead, teach, or serve, Bible college can provide the tools and training to help you serve well and build up the church.
Bible College Helps You Discover God’s Plan
(Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV) “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” If you sense God may have a special purpose or calling for you, Bible college can be a place where He confirms and clarifies that calling, often through relationships, experiences, and spiritual growth.
Bible College Isn’t the Only Way God Uses
(Colossians 3:23 NKJV) “And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men,” Remember, God calls people in all walks of life! Bible college is a wonderful tool, but it’s not the only path to spiritual growth or ministry. God may use job experiences, local church ministry, or personal study in powerful ways too.
Is Bible college right for you? Only God can answer that—but He promises to guide you as you seek Him. Pray, talk to trusted spiritual leaders, and listen for God’s direction. If your heart is set on growing in faith, understanding God’s Word, and serving others, Bible college could be a great next step in your journey.
I serve as the Chancellor for Southwest Christina College. It is an online Bible College that trains and equips leaders all over the Unites States and around the world.
Benefits:
Affordable. Each 3 credit class only costs $195, and most books are covered.
High Quality! Most of our professors have Doctorate degrees are are well known and well equipped to teach.
We have ministry certificates as well as Associate, Bachelor, Masters and Doctorate degrees available.
For more information go to: www.southwestchristiancollege.org for more information and to apply today!
How do I know if I am called my God to be a pastor?
Many believers who love and serve Jesus wonder if God might be calling them to pastoral ministry. The question, “Am I called to be a pastor?” is a big one, and it’s important to seek God and understand what His call may look like in your life.
The Call Begins with a Desire
(1 Timothy 3:1 NKJV) “This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work.”
If you feel a strong desire to serve God by caring for His people, teaching His Word, and shepherding a church, that’s often a sign that God might be calling you. A godly desire for this work is a great place to start.
The Call Is Affirmed by God’s People
(Acts 13:2-3 NKJV) “As they ministered to the Lord and fasted, the Holy Spirit said, ‘Now separate to Me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.’ Then, having fasted and prayed, and laid hands on them, they sent them away.”
God often confirms His calling through the encouragement and affirmation of other mature believers, mentors, and church leaders. They may see the gifts, character, and heart for ministry in you before you do.
The Call Produces Godly Character
(1 Timothy 3:2-3 NKJV) “A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous...”
Pastoral calling is about character before anything else. Ask yourself: Am I growing in Christlike qualities—integrity, humility, love, patience, and self-control?
The Call Requires God-Given Gifts
(Romans 12:6-8 NKJV) “Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching...”
Pastoral ministry involves teaching, shepherding, leading, and caring for others. Do you notice God working through you in these ways? Have others encouraged you in these gifts?
The Call Is Tested Over Time
(2 Timothy 2:15 NKJV) “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
A true call stands the test of time, service, and perseverance. God will often open doors for opportunities to serve, learn, and grow long before someone is officially recognized as a pastor.
If you sense God may be calling you to be a pastor, spend time in prayer, study God’s Word, seek wise counsel, and be willing to serve wherever God leads. His call will become clearer as you walk closely with Him. Remember, God equips those He calls—and He will be with you every step of the way.
Serving Before Leading
Leadership is often seen as holding a position of influence or authority. But in God’s Kingdom, leadership begins in a very different place—it begins with serving others. Before God calls us to lead, He calls us to serve.
Jesus Modeled Servant Leadership
(Mark 10:45 NKJV) “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
Jesus Himself, the greatest leader who ever lived, showed the way by serving others. He washed feet, cared for the hurting, and gave everything out of love.
God Exalts the Humble Servant
(Matthew 23:11-12 NKJV) “But he who is greatest among you shall be your servant. And whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” God’s way is upside-down from the world’s thinking. He lifts up those who start low—those who serve with humility and love.
Serving Prepares Us for Leadership
(1 Timothy 3:10 NKJV) “But let these also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons, being found blameless.” Before appointing leaders in the early church, Paul insisted they prove themselves through service first. Serving reveals our heart and shapes our character for greater responsibility.
Serving Others Reflects God’s Heart
(Galatians 5:13 NKJV) “...through love serve one another.” When we serve others, we reflect the heart of Jesus. This is how the world knows we are truly His followers—by our love and willingness to put others first.
True leadership always starts with a servant’s heart. If you want to make a difference, begin by serving where you are. Look for ways to help, encourage, and lift up those around you. Remember, in the Kingdom of God, we serve before we lead—and in that, we follow the example of Jesus Himself.
Let's Talk Integrity
When we think of godly leadership, one word stands out—integrity. It’s not just about what we do in public, but who we are when no one else is watching. True leaders, according to the Bible, are people who live honestly and honor God in every area of life.
Integrity Is at the Heart of Biblical Leadership
(Proverbs 11:3 NKJV) “The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the perversity of the unfaithful will destroy them.” Integrity is what keeps us on track and helps us make decisions that align with God's will. It’s the foundation of a trustworthy life.
God Looks for Integrity in Leaders
(Psalm 78:72 NKJV) “So he shepherded them according to the integrity of his heart, and guided them by the skillfulness of his hands.” King David was chosen not just for his ability, but for his heart. God values leaders who are sincere, honest, and faithful in private and in public.
Integrity Earns Respect and Influence
(Titus 2:7-8 NKJV) “In all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility, sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you.” A leader’s influence grows when they live what they teach. People will follow someone whose actions match their words.
Integrity Honors God and Blesses Others
(Matthew 5:16 NKJV) “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” When leaders live lives of integrity, it points people to God. Our example can inspire faith and trust in others.
Leaders live a life of integrity. They choose honesty, humility, and faithfulness, even when it’s tough or when no one is watching. Whether you lead in your home, workplace, church, or community, ask God to help you walk in integrity so your life will honor Him and bless everyone around you.
Book Recommendations
Here is a list of 25 recommended books for Christian leaders, including classics on leadership, spiritual formation, and practical ministry. This list blends biblical foundations, wisdom for personal growth, and tested principles for leading others.
Biblical and Spiritual Leadership
1. The Bible (NKJV)
Nothing replaces the Word of God as the ultimate leadership guide.
2. Spiritual Leadership – J. Oswald Sanders
A classic on how spiritual principles apply to Christian leadership.
3. The Making of a Leader – Dr. J. Robert Clinton
Insightful exploration of God’s process in developing leaders.
4. Lead Like Jesus – Ken Blanchard & Phil Hodges
Learning leadership by modeling Christ’s servant heart.
5. A Work of Heart: Understanding How God Shapes Spiritual Leaders – Reggie McNeal
Understand the shaping of a leader’s heart and calling. Character and Formation
6. Ordering Your Private World – Gordon MacDonald
Keeping your inner life healthy and strong as a leader.
7. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality – Peter Scazzero
Growing into spiritual and emotional health for sustainable leadership.
8. Integrity: The Courage to Meet the Demands of Reality – Dr. Henry Cloud
Vision, Influence, and Practical Skills
9. Developing the Leader Within You 2.0 – John C. Maxwell
A foundational book on identifying and strengthening your leadership.
10. 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership – John C. Maxwell
Maxwell’s well-known principles to increase influence and effectiveness.
11. Courageous Leadership – Bill Hybels
Practical insights for leading with conviction and vision.
12. The Four Disciplines of Execution – Chris McChesney, Sean Covey & Jim Huling
Turning vision into results in organizational settings.
13. Good to Great – Jim Collins
Timeless principles that make organizations and leaders exceptional.
Servant Leadership and Teams
14. The Servant Leader – James A. Autry
What it really means to serve those you lead.
15. The 5 Levels of Leadership – John C. Maxwell
Practical steps for growing leadership influence.
16. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work – John C. Maxwell
Principles and practicals for leading strong, healthy teams.
Discipleship and Ministry
17. Discipleship Essentials – Greg Ogden
The core of discipleship for those training leaders.
18. Mentoring 101 – John C. Maxwell
How to multiply your impact through raising up others.
19. Simple Church – Thom S. Rainer & Eric Geiger
Clarity and focus in church ministry.
Calling and the Leader’s Journey
20. The Call – Os Guinness
Discovering and responding to God’s unique call.
21. Anonymous: Jesus’ Hidden Years and Yours – Alicia Britt Chole
Developing character and calling in hidden seasons.
22. Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership – Ruth Haley Barton
How to lead from a deep relationship with Christ.
Wisdom for Life and Ministry
23. The Pursuit of God – A.W. Tozer
Deepening your walk with God as the foundation of leadership.
24. Celebration of Discipline – Richard Foster
Spiritual habits that keep leaders grounded and fruitful.
25. Leadership Pain – Samuel R. Chand
Learn how to grow through the inevitable challenges and suffering of leadership.
These books will help shape your heart, mind, and ministry as a Christian leader.
Healthy Balance: Home & Ministry
One of the greatest challenges for those who serve the Lord—whether as pastors, leaders, or volunteers—is finding a healthy balance between serving in ministry and caring for family at home. God wants both areas to flourish, and His Word offers wisdom to help us do just that.
God Values Family
(1 Timothy 3:4-5 NKJV) “One who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?)” Paul taught that a leader’s first ministry is to family. A strong and loving home life is the foundation for effective ministry.
Ministry Is Important—But Not at the Expense of Family
(Ephesians 5:25 NKJV) “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”
Scripture shows us that our love and commitment to family should reflect Christ’s love for the church—sacrificial, present, and faithful.
Make Time for Both
(Ecclesiastes 3:1 NKJV) “To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:” Life is full of busy seasons, but wise leaders regularly set aside time for both ministry and family. Healthy balance doesn’t mean giving equal time every day, but being sensitive to the needs of each season.
Serve Together When Possible
(Joshua 24:15 NKJV) “But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
Look for ways your family can be part of your ministry. Serving together grows stronger bonds and helps your loved ones catch the vision of God’s work.
Take Time to Rest and Recharge
(Mark 6:31 NKJV) “And He said to them, ‘Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.’” Even Jesus taught His disciples the value of rest. Don’t be afraid to take a break—to recharge physically, emotionally, and spiritually. This benefits both your home and your ministry.
Healthy balance isn’t always easy, but it is possible with God’s help. Trust Him to give you wisdom, set good boundaries, and fill you with grace for both your family and your ministry. When your home is strong, your ministry will be even more effective, and both will bring glory to God.
Identity
The world measures worth by position, performance, or popularity, it’s easy for leaders, even in ministry to tie their identity to what they do. But God calls His leaders to find their true identity in Him first, not in their role or results.
A Leader’s Identity Comes from Christ
(Galatians 2:20 NKJV) “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” Our value and identity are not based on our achievements, but on Christ living in us. This truth gives every leader deep security that nothing can shake.
Leaders Are God’s Children First
(1 John 3:1 NKJV) “Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!” Before you are a pastor, teacher, or leader, you are God’s beloved child. Your identity as a son or daughter of God remains, no matter how your ministry may change.
Identity Shapes Character and Influence
(Colossians 3:12 NKJV) “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering;” When you live out of your true identity in Christ, you lead with humility, kindness, and strength. Your influence flows naturally from who you are, not just from what you do.
Don’t Let Role Replace Relationship
(Luke 10:20 NKJV) “...rejoice because your names are written in heaven.”
Jesus told His disciples not to rejoice in ministry success, but in being known and loved by God. Relationship comes before results.
A leader’s identity is rooted, not in titles or tasks, but in Christ and as a child of God. Let your service flow from who you are in Him. When your identity is secure in Jesus, no challenge or change in role can shake your purpose or your peace.
Leading Through Crisis
Every leader will face seasons of crisis—times when life or ministry is shaken by unexpected challenges, loss, or uncertainty. In these moments, people look to their leaders for hope, stability, and direction. God’s Word gives us wisdom for leading well through crisis.
Stay Anchored in God’s Presence
(Psalm 46:1 NKJV) “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”
The best leaders know that their own strength isn’t enough. In crisis, seek God first as your refuge and source of strength. When you are anchored in His presence, you can bring peace to others.
Lead with Wisdom and Calm
(James 1:5 NKJV) “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.”
Crises require clear thinking and level-headedness. Ask God for wisdom before making decisions, and communicate with calm assurance—even if you don’t have all the answers yet.
Be Honest, Yet Hopeful
(2 Corinthians 4:8-9 NKJV) “We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair...”
Great leaders acknowledge reality without losing sight of hope. Be honest about difficulties, but speak life and faith. Remember, God brings purpose out of every trial.
Prioritize People
(Galatians 6:2 NKJV) “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
In times of crisis, care for your people. Reach out, listen well, and bear burdens together. Compassion and connection are powerful tools in uncertain times.
Keep Pointing to Jesus
(Hebrews 12:2 NKJV) “Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith...”
In every crisis, lead others to keep their eyes on Jesus. He is faithful, and He will carry you through whatever storms you face.
Leading through crisis is not easy, but God equips those He calls. Stay close to Him, ask for wisdom, care for others, and hold onto hope. Remember, even in the darkest seasons, God can use you to be a light and a source of peace for those you lead.
Leaders Need to Learn to Rest
Leadership is a high calling that often comes with great responsibility and many demands. It’s easy for leaders to push themselves to the limit, always busy and always serving. But true, effective leadership includes learning to rest—just as God intended.
Even Jesus Took Time to Rest
(Mark 6:31 NKJV) “And He said to them, ‘Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.’ For there were many coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.” Jesus modeled rest for His disciples, showing them that there are times to step away from the crowds and recharge. If Jesus needed rest, so do we.
God Designed Rest for Our Good
(Exodus 20:9-10 NKJV) “Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the LORD your God. In it you shall do no work...”
From the beginning, God gave His people a rhythm of work and rest. He knows we are at our best—physically, mentally, and spiritually—when we regularly pause to rest.
Rest Renews Our Strength
(Isaiah 40:31 NKJV) “But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”
Resting isn’t just taking a nap; it’s about waiting on the Lord, letting Him refresh and renew us so we can keep running the race He’s set before us.
Rest Reminds Us We’re Not God
(Psalm 127:2 NKJV) “It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows; for so He gives His beloved sleep.”
When we rest, we remind ourselves that the world doesn’t depend on us. True rest is an act of trust—saying, “God, I know You’re in control, even when I stop working.”
Leaders, rest is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. Don’t wait until you’re burned out to step back. Make intentional times to rest in God’s presence, renew your body and soul, and trust Him with the results. When you learn to rest, you’ll find greater strength, wisdom, and joy in every area of leadership.
Soft Heart & Tough Skin
In ministry and leadership, the journey isn’t always easy. People may misunderstand you, circumstances may get tough, and criticism can come when you least expect it. God calls us to balance a soft heart with tough skin, a combination that keeps us loving, yet resilient.
Leaders Need a Soft Heart
(Ezekiel 36:26 NKJV) “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.”
God desires His leaders to be compassionate, sensitive, and caring. A soft heart listens to God, loves people deeply, and feels sorrow for what hurts Him.
(Colossians 3:12 NKJV) “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering;” We are called to wear kindness and mercy as a badge of honor—never allowing the challenges of leadership to make us cold, indifferent, or bitter.
Leaders Need Tough Skin
(2 Corinthians 4:8-9 NKJV) “We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.” Ministry sometimes brings hardship, criticism, and rejection. Developing “tough skin” means not letting negativity, gossip, or unfair words get into your soul or cripple your ministry.
(Proverbs 4:23 NKJV) “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” Guard your heart, but don’t harden it. Allow God’s Spirit to heal wounds quickly and give you the strength to keep pressing on, even when it’s hard.
The Example of Jesus
(Luke 23:34 NKJV) “Then Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.’” No one faced greater misunderstanding or pain than Jesus, yet He never stopped loving. He kept a tender heart towards people, but refused to let the cruelty of others change His mission or character.
Godly leaders walk with a soft heart and tough skin. Stay tender before God. Love people fiercely, forgive quickly, and don’t let adversity harden your soul. With God’s help, you can remain compassionate and courageous, just like Jesus, even when the journey is tough.
Leaders Go First!
True leadership is more than giving instructions or holding a title, it’s about example and sacrifice. Godly leaders never ask others to do something they wouldn’t do themselves. Instead, leaders go first and set the pace for others to follow.
Jesus Is Our Ultimate Example
(John 13:14-15 NKJV) “If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you.” Jesus didn’t just tell His disciples to serve; He showed them by taking the lowest place and washing their feet. He led by example—by going first.
Leaders Set the Standard
(Philippians 2:3-4 NKJV) “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.” Great leaders put others first and are the first to serve, give, sacrifice, and take responsibility.
Leaders Are Willing to Pay the Price
(1 Corinthians 9:19 NKJV) “For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win the more.” Paul chose to serve and lead by laying his own rights aside. Leaders go the extra mile, shoulder the hardest loads, and show the way forward.
Be the Example Others Can Follow
(1 Peter 5:2-3 NKJV) “Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, serving as overseers, not by compulsion but willingly… nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.”
Real leadership is about modeling the life you want others to live. Show them what faithfulness, integrity, service, and sacrifice look like.
Leaders go first. They never demand from others what they’re unwilling to do. Instead, by their actions, they invite others to follow. If you want to lead like Jesus, be the first to serve, the first to sacrifice, and the first to forgive. Set the example, and others will be inspired to follow your lead.
Leaders Have Boundaries
One of the marks of wise, healthy leadership is the ability to set and maintain boundaries. Without clear boundaries, leaders get depleted, relationships suffer, and ministry effectiveness fades. God’s Word offers both wisdom and encouragement for leaders to protect what matters most.
Even Jesus Set Boundaries
(Mark 1:35-37 NKJV) “Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed. And Simon and those who were with Him searched for Him. When they found Him, they said to Him, ‘Everyone is looking for You.’” Even though people constantly needed Him, Jesus regularly pulled away for solitude and prayer. He knew when to say “no” to demands, so He could say “yes” to the Father.
Boundaries Protect Your Priorities
(Ecclesiastes 3:1 NKJV) “To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven.” Healthy leaders know that there’s a right time for everything. They guard time with God, family, and personal renewal, so they can serve effectively.
Boundaries Keep Relationships Healthy
(Proverbs 4:23 NKJV) “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” Boundaries help protect your heart and prevent emotional burnout. They allow you to love and lead others from a place of health, not exhaustion.
Boundaries Model Wisdom to Others
(Ephesians 5:15-16 NKJV) “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”
Leaders teach those they serve how to live wisely by setting healthy boundaries. You show others that rest, family, and spiritual growth are priorities, not just busy ministry.
Leaders have boundaries, not to keep people out, but to keep themselves healthy for long-term impact. When you protect your time with God, care for your heart, and give attention to your closest relationships, you serve others better and lead more like Jesus. Remember, saying “no” at times is a key part of faithful, fruitful leadership.
I need help with discipleship!
If you’ve been in church leadership for any length of time, you know the word “discipleship” is essential. But if you’re honest, you may also feel the tension: Many churches are busy, active, and well-attended, but very few are genuinely effective at making disciples. How do we move from good intentions to intentional culture—where disciples aren’t just made, but multiplied?
1. Start with Conviction, Not Convenience
Before you change your calendar, ask God to renew your conviction about the call to make disciples.
Matthew 28:19-20 [NKJV]: "Go therefore and make disciples..."
Discipleship is not just another ministry program, it is the mission. Make sure your team knows this is the “spine” of your church, not just another “arm.”
2. Model Discipleship from the Top
Culture is shaped by what leaders do, not just what they say. Intentionally invest in a small group of people before asking the entire church to do the same. If the senior pastor and staff aren’t investing in others personally, the church as a whole won’t either.
3. Make It Relational, Not Just Informational
Discipleship happens best life-on-life, not just class-to-class. Encourage relationships where people share real struggles, pray together, and apply Scripture in practical ways. Consider launching discipleship triads or “life groups” focused on spiritual growth more than curriculum completion.
4. Integrate Discipleship Everywhere
Tie discipleship into your language, vision, and Sundays. Regularly celebrate discipleship stories up front: baptisms, testimonies, and answered prayer. Let it be clear that deeper faith is not optional, but expected.
5. Keep It Simple and Repeatable
Don’t overwhelm your people with complicated materials. Make it easy for anyone, from new believers to seasoned saints, to get involved. Provide tools, resources, and basic “next steps” for those starting their discipleship journey. Encourage “each one, reach one, teach one.”
6. Measure the Right Things
Resist the urge to measure only attendance or giving. Track how many are actively discipling or being discipled, and how lives are changing. Use surveys, testimonies, and accountability check-ins to gauge true spiritual growth.
7. Pray for a Movement, Not Just a Method
Ask the Holy Spirit to breathe new life into your ministry’s discipleship DNA. Revival begins when hearts are set on fire for Jesus, not just plugged into a process. God is calling His Church back to the basics, fully devoted followers who make other followers.
Changing a culture doesn’t happen overnight, but with prayer, persistence, and the right priorities, it will happen. Remember: You are not called to create crowds, but to make disciples. If you need practical resources, mentorship, or support, reach out. We’re in this together.
Let’s make discipleship our heartbeat again, transforming the church, one life at a time.
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